When it comes to dating, personal appearance plays a crucial role, both in attracting a girl and in moving forward in the relationship. This doesn't mean that you have to be a chiseled male model to get ahead in the dating world. To attract a girl and make a memorable impression, you just need to be confident in the way you look, and always make an effort to look presentable and well-groomed.

Looking your best doesn't mean you have to spend a fortune on designer couture labels or break out a three-piece suit on the first date. In fact, if you're not comfortable in a suit, don't wear one. You'll end up sitting awkwardly at the table, tugging at your sleeves, as the girl becomes more and more uncomfortable and starts to think she's making you nervous. Finding your personal style also doesn't mean you have to copy a hot male celebrity's outfits or follow the latest fashion trends.

However, there is more to your personal appearance than running a comb through your unruly hair as you race out the door. Although your personality and how you treat a girlfriend are ultimately what will keep her interested, appearance is the first thing we notice when we meet someone. Whether we like it or not, everyone makes initial judgements about how other people look, many times unconsciously.

While good grooming and dressing well are important, remember to be yourself. Don't start parading around in cowboy boots and ten gallon hats because a girl you've started dating rides horses. While some men like it when a woman chooses their clothes, a girlfriend who forces you to change your personal style is not right for you. If a girlfriend is constantly hounding you about the shoes you wear or throwing out your sweaters because they're not her style, pay attention to those red flags.

Part of your personal appearance relates to your physical fitness. You owe it to yourself and to a girlfriend to be physically fit. You'll feel better, live a longer, healthier life, enjoy activities more, and feel more self-confident and attractive. Don't let an out-of-shape body keep you from getting out and having fun with a girl, or make it appear that you're indifferent to how you look.

Even when you progress past the first few dates, get serious about a girlfriend, or even get married, you can't stop caring about your appearance simply because you've “landed” a mate. By not putting time and effort into your personal appearance, you're sending a message that a girlfriend or wife isn't worth getting dressed up for.

In the end, it comes down to finding a style you're comfortable with. Ask yourself: do you like the way you look? Would a girlfriend like the way you look? Focus on finding clothes you're comfortable wearing, and take the time to groom yourself to look your best. When you meet the right girl the rest will follow, and you'll be well on your way to a fulfilling relationship